Matti May Hardie


I know a lot of people who get really squeamish when it comes to talking about periods, which always confuses me. What? Do you change your protection with your eyes closed? It's your own blood, why are you grossed out by that? 

Of course I’m not expert and I’m in no way a professionnel but I figured it was the least I could do, so here is a lot of things about periods (in the form of a list, because it’s been a while since I’ve done a good list). However, pre-warning, these are things that I personally have experienced/noticed. It's not necessarily going to happen to you, everyone is different.

1/ Some symptoms won’t necessarily come straight away. At first, literally nothing happened. I would just bleed out of my vagina and that was that. It’s only as it went on that I started getting cramps, mood swings, and all those fun things. It’s fairly unstabilising to FEEL EVERYTHING all of a sudden.

2/ Ibuprofene is your new boo. Stomach cramps happen because your womb is simulating birth. Yeah. Fun. Stomach cramps are actually mini contractions. and since ibuprofene is an anti-inflammatory, it calms your womb and helps the pain subside better than if you were using paracetamol or other.

3/ Even if you’re like set like a clock it can come early/late. Sometimes I get surprises (always when I’m wearing my best underwear!) though I must say that the period tracker that I’ve been using for ages now really helps. I’d never been very good with tracking my period, and I would always forget to do it, but with Clue I’ve really tried to stick with it and I can definitely see it paying off. The more info you put in the better it can predict when your period is going to be and gives you loads of information that I don’t understand half of to be honest, but it's still pretty interesting.

5/ Protection is key and you don’t immediately find the right one for you. there are tons of different period products out there and generally you find your preferred one through trial and error. there are pads and tampons, but there’s also moon cups which are just amazing apparently (i’m meaning to try but i must admit i’m a bit scared of them). oh and tampons don’t always fit. if you’ve never had penetrative sex with a penis or other, then you may struggle a bit.

6/ Period sex is weird. people make it out to be dirty, or this amazing experience. but you don’t have to do it. some people are into it and other people aren’t.

7/ You’re going to have to deal with mood swings. you’ll find yourself crying for the slightest thing. I once started crying because I’d said something that sounded sad. oh and wanting to kill everyone for breathing is a frequent one for me too. i have yet to find a solution to this to be honest.

8/ The pill is not your enemy. it’s not the best alternative, but a lot of people will make it sound like it’s the devil’s working. granted, putting artificial hormones and chemicals into your body isn’t the greatest idea, but if you find absolutely no other solution, then don’t stop yourself if you know it can genuinely help you.

9/ Underwear. oh my lovely lingerie. how many nice knickers and even trousers have been ruined because of lady nature. i heavily recommend keeping a pad or a tampon in your bag for safety at all times. trust me, tried and tested, you can thank me later.

10/ Cravings and bloating is going to happen, all my ed humans out there, it’s going to be okay. there are loads of pro-ana and pro-mia techniques out there, but please, don’t go in for it. just breath, and remember that it’s temporary and that it will pass. and if you’re in the midst of an eating disorder, please, get help. there are loads of different charities and organisations that can  help you and give you the support and advice that you need. (also my instagram messaging is open if ever anyone needs to talk) 

If you have any tips feel free to leave them in the comments.

M x
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How do you intro? Let's get on with it, that sounds like fun.

Gilmore Girls

I heard about this show aaages ago when Rebecca of FromRoses was raving about it, but it never really attracted me until my Mum started watching it, and I accidentally started getting emotionally invested in their lives. I swear I felt like I'd lost a limb when she finished it, so I've started it again and it's so wholesome and lovely and life seems so simple when I'm plunged into Stars Hollow!

Gel Nails

I decided to treat myself and get my nails done professional, since when I do them myself they make them look like I've done them with my teeth. My wonderful friend Mélody did them for me and I'm absolutely in love with them. (Though because I'm clever I forgot to take a photo, but trust me they were gorgeous)

Canon 1300D

It's my new bebe. I've been lusting over a Canon for what feels like forever and my Dad bought me one for Christmas and I must say it is the most wonderful thing, the quality is just gorgeous and it's an absolute pleasure to use!

Red Rose Insence

I'm not quite sure what's come over me recently, but I've just been addicted to rose scented incense. It's really fresh and floral, without being overpowering which I feel can be a danger with rose scented things.


Elizabeth Arden 'Around The World' Lip Scrub

While I'm at school, I tend to get really bad chapped lips because the air there is super dry, especially in my dorm room, so I was always using my mum's 8 hour lip balm, so in the end she surprised me by buying this. I always forget to exfoliate my lips, so I really like that it's a lip balm and exfoliant in one.

Sanoflore 'Aqua Magnifica' Skin-Perfecting Botanical Essence and the Sanoflore 'Crème Magnifica' Anti-Imperfection Moisturiser

I've already mentioned these products in my previous post, but I wanted to add it to my favourites because I'm just obsessed with them! They just make my skin look and feel like new and my skincare routine is becoming one of my favorite parts of the day.

It's a short one this month, what have you been loving?

M x
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Well, this is fun isn’t it? This whole blogging malarky! I’m sorry I’ve been away for so long, college is becoming like an over-bearing parent, and I’ve moved house, as you do.

Anyway, for Christmas I was seriously spoiled and got a shit ton of skincare stuff to make my skin look a little less disgusting.

I'm aware that there is a lot of the brand Sanoflore in this post, I'm not sponsored but I got gifted a set for Christmas and I'm really enjoying their products, and a massive bonus is that despite them belonging to L'Oréal, they are a cruelty free brand!

Everyday

Sanoflore 'Gelée Magnifica' purifying cleanser

Normally this should be used twice a day to wash your face with, but I only do it once a day, because I don't really feel like I need it twice a day. It's really refreshing and, like this whole 'Magnifica' range, it feels really luxurious to apply and use and adds a little bit of pep to my skin.

Sanoflore 'Aqua Magnifica' skin-perfecting botanical essence

I tend to use this as a cleanser and run it all over my face and jawline after I've washed it with a cotton pad. It's got a strange smell, as does all of the Sanoflore products but you get used to it after a while.

Sanoflore 'Crème Magnifica' anti-imperfections moisturiser

This is the most hydrating moisturiser I've used in a long time! It feels really luxurious to apply and I really can feel a difference in my skin when I apply this. I use the botanical essence and this moisturiser twice a day, morning and night and I can definitely feel the difference in my skin, it's a lot more matte and feels a lot more hydrated and less clogged up. The only negative thing I can find is the packaging. I personally don't like moisturisers in a tube because I feel like you waste a lot when it's in a tube.


Weekly

Neutrogena 'Visibly Clear: Black Head Eliminating' Exfoliating Cleanser

This stuff is the love of my life. I've already mentioned it in a previous post, but it's just the best thing every. It's got a foamy consistency that makes you feel like you're washing your face with a cloud, and it's got this really clean scent to it and it feels so nice to wash your face with, and to add to all that, your face feels beautifully clean and matte after using it. I used to use it every day but because I'm using the Sanoflore face cleanser I don't see the need. I do, however, enjoy mixing the two together because I feel like they compliment each other really nicely.

Cattier 'Pink Clay Mask'


I'll use this once a week or every two weeks depending on if my skin needs it or not. It's nothing fancy but it does the job. I like using this on a Sunday, to give my face a fresh start for the coming day.

I hope you all enjoyed this post, let me know in the comments what your favourite skincare products are.

M x
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I mean, I say get ready with me, what I mean by that is 'see what I put on my face and how I dress myself to look like something of a human for once'. To be totally honest I don't know how this post came about since I'm trying to bargain my way into wearing pyjamas every day and even when I have to wear actual clothes, absolutely no one is getting me to wear make up.

However, now and again I do get myself together and wear something other than sweatpants, and here's what that looks like.

I'm the first one to admit I'm not the most adventurous with my make-up, I like to keep things simple as I feel that's what looks best.
Starting off with primer I'm using the TooFaced 'Hangover' primer, and on top I'll be using, as always, the BareMinerals 'Complexion Rescue' cream gel tint. I'm setting that with the Estée Lauder 'Perfecting Loose Powder'.

For contour and highlight as always I'm using the TooFaced 'Chocolatier' palette that I am still totally in love with despite the fact that I've severly hit pan on the bronzer! (I would link it but it was a limited edition, even though I've heard they're bringing it back this Christmas *violently crosses fingers*). Blush-wise I'm using my new love, the Soap and Glory 'Love at First Blush' which is just the prettiest thing in the world.


For my eyes, I'm just doing a simple cat eye with the Lancôme 'Liner Plume', and then lining the top of the it, and my bottom lashes with either 'Butterscotch' or 'Honey Dip', depending on my mood. Generally I use the Chanel 'Dimensions' mascara.  I'm going to highlight the corner of my eye with 'Desert's On Me' and my brow bone with  'Glaze'. I'm filling in my eyebrows with the Benefit 'Goof Proof' brow pencil and then setting them with 'Gimme Brow'. I'm going to use a nude eyeliner to open my eye up (Rimmel 'ScandalEyes' eyeliner in Nude 005).

Recently I've gone off lipstick. It's not something I reach to, probably because with the changing seasons and the cold my lips have become chapped, flaky messes, that I've been trying to combat with the Elizabeth Arden '8 Hour Cream' lip balm.

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In other news, it's Christmas in a week! And even though I'm a total Grinch I hope you guys enjoyed my attempts to festive-up my photos! Anyway, like every year, I'm leaving it up to you lot to decide if you'd like me to do a Christmas haul/what I got for Christmas-type post. I personally am not the biggest fan of them but if you guys would enjoy snooping around my presents, who am I to stop you? So I'd really appreciate it if you could vote in the poll, there's one on Twitter (link to that tweet here) or you can vote in that one there - it's as you wish!



M x
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I'm really proud of the title of this series. It's my favourite thing ever.

Hello! This is a new series I'm trying out, about everything LGBTQ+, which, for those who don't know, stands for Lesbian Gay Bisexual (yes, BISEXUAL), Transgender, Questioning and the plus is basically the rest of the acronym (LGBTQQIP2AA).

As you guys know, I've been dating a girl since this summer, and her mum is mildly homophobic and I wanted to talk about dealing with a relationship when one or both parents prevent you from seeing your SO.

The first thing you need to know is, in a lot of cases, if that makes your relationship stronger, then you're on the right path. If, however, not seeing your SO is hurting your relationship, then it's probably not meant to be. Saying that, there's always exceptions, but I've noticed that that tends to be the case.

First thing first, if you're both over 18, my first reflex would to be to tell your parents or whoever is preventing you to see each other to fuck off. It takes balls, I'm aware and it's not always possible to do that, but if you can, just gather up your courage and tell them to go fuck themselves.
For under 18s though, I feel you. I'm 17 and my girlfriend is 16 and it's a rather awkward situation. One thing I can recommend to you is to try and find ways to see each other. You need to get creative sometimes, but try and figure out if there are ways that the person can be leniant (if you're in the same class or club at school, use that, school projects or that kind of thing can be perfect). We tend to have to use that excuse with my girlfriend, and even though I loath lying, sometimes you don't really have a choice.

If you can see that the person who is stopping you from seeing each other could be open to talking, try and get you and your SO (or just yourself at first if that's best) to sit down with the person and explain things; it's terrifying, I get that, I've been in that situation and I found that explaining things and being open actually helped. You have to remember that 10 to 1 the person loves you or your SO and to see that you and your SO are happy together, sometimes that's all it takes (in the best case scenario).

I hate that I'm saying this, but I don't have a choice. Sometimes, you just need to keep it a secret. If you or your partner could be in a dangerous situation, keep it a secret! I hate that I have to say this, it makes me so sad but sadly it's the case. Make sure it's safe for the both/all of you before sharing it with people who could possibly bring you harm or problems.

Whatever you do though, you mustn't lose hope. Sometimes you'll find yourself thinking that you'll never see your SO, but believe me, things will be okay.

That's all I have to say on the subject, but if anyone has any opinions or advice feel free to leave it in the comments.

M x
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I'm finding a fair few shows on Netflix at the moment, and it's safe to say that it's being very damaging to my productivity and general work ethic. But who needs a degree when you've got TV right?.. I mean.. right? *sips tea nervously*

It's quite a miracle I've managed to find shows that I like, because for a show to grab my attention is rare as fuck. I'm not sure why, but I just can't get addicted to a show to the point where I'm binging it at every given opportunity. Sigh.

Hot Girls Wanted: Turned On
I mentioned this in a previous favourites post of mine, but as I said in the post, this show just transfixed me. It covers the topic of the sex-industry, and also the online dating industry, and it's super interesting to see the behind-the-scenes of the porn industry. There's only 1 season so it's pretty lightweight, too.

Mad Men

I finally managed to get around to finishing the 7 seasons of this show, and my god was it a whirlwind of emotions! For those of you who have been living under a rock for the past few years, Mad Men is about an ad man called Don Draper set in the 1960s, basically. But it's so much more complex than that but you can only really understand if you watch the show so I would encourage you all to go and watch because it's the coolest show ever.

Stranger Things

Yes, I'm aware I'm rather late to the Stranger Things party, but to be honest it hadn't really been something I was attracted to, that is, until Ayden binged it in a weekend and she started talking to me about it about 19 out of 24 hours of the day, so I found myself with little-to-no choice. Turns out I'm now hooked so the joke's on me. 

New Girl

This is the kind of show that's totally perfect when you just need to switch your brain off, or you need some background noise while you're working. It's chewing gum for the brain, if you will. But it's really sweet and you learn to love the characters.

American Horror Story

Again, I entirely blame Ayden for my love of this show. At first I didn't dare watch it because I was scared I would be traumatised (I don't tend to do well with horror and scary stuff), but I watched it with her entire body as a safety blanket and it turns out it's bloody brilliant. My favourite seasons have to be Murder House and Coven, and I can't bloody wait to watch Cult!

What are you watching? I can always do with some recommendations!

M x
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I've decided to take my skincare into hand over September. Because over the summer, pitiful is not the word. I wasn't even moisturising, guys, I WASN'T. EVEN. MOISTURISING! Because of that shameful fact, I decided I needed to do something asap. I'm going to just show you the products rather than do a point by point run through of my actual routines.

I try to keep my skincare fairly minimal, since I don't see the point of using fifty different products and make my skincare routine take half an hour every time, since I need it to be quick and efficient with college.


Neutrogena 'Visibly Clear: Black Head Eliminating' Exfoliating Cleanser

I'll use this first thing in the morning. It's a cleanser with little exfoliating beads in it, but it really doesn't feel like an exfoliant as it has a really silky smooth, almost creamy texture to it which is a really nice texture on the skin. I've definitely seen a difference since I started using this, after I use it my skin looks so much brighter and just generally healthier.

Neutrogena 'Hydro-Boost' Water Gel Moisturiser

This is the brand new fancy moisturiser from Neutrogena, and when I first tried it out I was a bit skeptical. I like nice creamy moisturisers because it actually makes my feel like I have something on my face and it's this isn't quite that. It sinks into the skin rather fast which can sometimes make you feel like it hasn't done anything, but I really like how soft and plump my skin feels after.


Nuxe 'Anti-Fatigue Moisturising" Eye Cream

Nuxe is the kind of brand you probably wouldn't hear about otherwise, but my god it's good. I tried the eye cream and it's the stuff of miracles. Immediately after I put it on my eyes looked brighter. And every time I use it it's the same.

Caudalie 'Deep Cleansing Exfoliator'

I tend to use this when I need a bit more of a deep cleanse. I really love this product but you can really tell that it works, you can almost feel it working into your skin. There's not a whole lot to say other than it feels really nice on the skin and works bloody well.

Matti x
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